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Tillyneedsyourhelp
Someone please help me I was abused from age 6 to 13 by a family member who I was sent to live with after my grandparents death his wife who is my mothers sister must of known something was going on as on her death bed I held her hand after not seeing her for 5 years and told her when u die and see nanny and grandad they are gonna tell you things and I’m sorry for not telling you but that’s the reason I stayed away not because I didn’t love you or was grateful for you taking me in. She grabbed my hand and squeezed it and said hey don’t be silly u can tell me what are you worried about breaking up my family? At that point something inside me felt sick and I looked at her let go of her hand and walked out. 6 years has since passed and it’s the abusers turn to die now and I’m petrified that when he does die he will be able to see me and my daughters undress. It might sound stupid to some but I was always told as a kid someone’s always watching over u blah blah and people who die will always be with u and so on. If this is true he will see me undress and not only that he can watch my kids too I feel like there’s no way out I can protect us while he’s alive but I can’t protect us from when he does how can I stop him? Has anyone else had these thoughts or knows how to stop them as I keep coming to the only conclusion that I’d have to die before he does for him not to be able to see me or have any sexual gratification from me anymore